Throughout my life, I have realized more and more that so much of my upbringing is based on the traditions that have been passed down from my Italian relatives. Some traditions are noticeable, others I was not even aware of until college when I was living with other people who did things differently. Holidays are the first thing that comes to mind. For Italians, holidays are about food and family. We have a traditional Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, Easter, and birthday meals, many of which include homemade pasta and homemade meatballs. Family dinner was something I took for granted as a young child; I made the assumption all families ate together every night. When I got to college, I realized that was not the case, and I was actually very lucky to have a family who would cook and eat together every night.
My mom was fluent in Italian, as she studied Italian in both high school and college. Unfortunately, for various reasons, she was not able to speak to me enough when I was younger so although I have an ear for it, I never learned how to speak it. Now, I am studying Italian in school with the sole purpose of being able to teach my future kids Italian, as an ode to my family history and traditions that made me who I am today. The Italian American culture is a unique one, full of food and passion, and a lifestyle unique to only those who are lucky enough to be Italian American.