They tell you while you’re young
“Girls, go out and have your fun”
Then they hunt and slay the ones who actually do it
Criticize the way you fly when you’re soaring through the sky
Shoots you down and then they sigh, and say
“She looks like she’s been through it” (1)

Lord, what will become of me
Once I’ve lost my novelty? (2)

I’ve had too much to drink tonight
And I know it’s sad, but this is what I think about
And I wake up in the middle of the nigher
It’s like I can feel time moving
How can a person know everything at 18 but nothing at 22

And will you still want me when I’m nothing new?
How long will it be cute
All this crying in my room
When you can’t blame it on my youth
And roll your eyes with affection? (3)

And my cheeks are growing tired
From turning red and faking smiles
Are we only biding time ‘til I lose your attention?
And someone else lights up the room?
People love an ingénue (4)

I’ve had (I’ve had) too much to drink tonight
How did I go from growing up to breaking down?
And I wake up (wake up) in the middle of the night
It’s like I can feel time moving
How can a person know everything at 18 but nothing at 22?
Will you still want me when I’m nothing new?

I know someday I’m gonna meet her, it’s a fever dream
The kind of radiance you only have at 17
She’ll know the way, and then she’ll say she got the map from me
I’ll say I’m happy for her, then I’ll cry myself to sleep
Oh, whoa, whoa
Oh, whoa, whoa, oh, whoa, oh

I’ve had (I’ve had) too much to drink tonight
But I wonder if they’ll miss me once they drive me out (5)
I wake up (wake up) in the middle of the night
And I can feel time moving 
How can a person know everything at 18 but nothing at 22? (6)

And will you still want me
Will you still want me
When I’m nothing new?

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1. In this verse Swift alludes to the sexism often directed towards younger girls in Hollywood and the music industry especially during the early 2010s. She references the unfair criticisms that female pop stars typically receive. In addition, the collaboration with Phoebe Bridgers, considered a "young" artist, allows for Swift to directly reference Bridger's experiences as an emerging artist. It is likely that Bridgers’ experiences as a young artist parallel those of Swift’s several years later.

2. This line directly parallels a fear that Swift articulates in Miss Americana where she says, "I just need to make a better record. This is probably one of my last opportunities as an artist to grasp onto that kind of success” (Wilson 2020) after she fails to receive a nomination for the Grammys for reputation. She continued to say that she feared that her next album, Lover, would be the last time that the general public would be able to tolerate her status as a recording artist. It is, perhaps, because of this fear that Taylor uses Lover to address various themes that she had been previously too scared to publicly voice, or had been advised not to. In what she believes to be her last album, Swift addresses contentious themes such as the LGBTQIA+ community, societal double standards, and feminism. "Lord, what will become of me" may also be a reference to Jane Austen's Pride and Prejudice. Through her allusion to Austen’s classic, Swift implores the audience to not judge based on outward appearances, but rather how they present themselves.

3. These lines when analyzed together can be a reference to a comment made by Swift during an interview with Vogue. She speaks candidly about her experiences growing up with “the entire world” watching her. Swift stated that when she first started releasing her music, men in the industry saw her as an overexcited young girl who reminded them more of their nieces or daughters rather than a successful colleague. As soon as Swift grew out of "the mold" that the industry had crafted for her and became a competitor, she started to see the prevalence of sexism in the music industry. Often, when a young girl succeeds, her success is infantilized and she’s "cute" for writing songs that become hits. But, the second the artist reaches commercial success, nominated for awards, or starts selling stadium tours is when her career isn’t “cute” anymore. This sudden change in attitude occurs, most probably, as a response rooted in sexism to a woman succeeding (Aguirre 2019).

4. "Ingénue" is a French word, meaning "an innocent or unsophisticated young woman, particularly one who is 'endearingly innocent,'" or "a naïve typecast common among fictional romances.”

5. Swift continues to express her fear for the end of her career. In Miss Americana, Taylor speaks of those who unwillingly "age out" of the music industry. She comments that women are often thrown into a “graveyard” by the industry once they hit their 30s and wonders if her audience will miss her after they turn away from her music and towards those of younger artists who once drew inspiration from her (Wilson 2020).

6. 18 and 22 were years of Swift’s life that were particularly important for her. At 18, Swift was given a card from Kenny Chesney which had enough money to change the trajectory of her career as she was able to use the money to pay her band bonuses and purchase tour buses that could fuel her dreams (Ahlgrim 2023). However, by 22 Swift was deeply involved in Hollywood and the music industry. From this line, it can be concluded that in the 4 years her innocence slowly faded and she began to realize how difficult it would be to make it out of Hollywood and, by extension, the music industry as a woman.